How do we know which ones will still accept us?

[She's keeping her options open, but she's also not sure she wants to gamble on which places will or won't accept her.

As to that second part...how to phrase this as a question that won't give too much away.]

Perhaps...it's about the form we take. Kind of. Um, what you can turn into...is it a specific weapon? I mean, I know we only take one form but is there anything...distinct about yours?