[In so many ways, that really is how L sees it. What he knows and understands of humanity has mostly been experienced from behind computer screens and plate glass.]

Someone... wasn't it Dostoevsky? said that "Much unhappiness has come into the world because of bewilderment and things left unsaid."

While much of my personal security has depended on "bewilderment and things left unsaid", it... seems that among those you trust, such things would be purely unhelpful. Always.